First Date with women: If your date is after work, it is usually a fairly good idea to bring your "date clothes" with you if you don't have time to change at home. You may not be a slob and under ordinary circumstances, you look like a million bucks at the end of the day, but fate has a twisted sense of humor. The day of the date is the one day that you will get caught in the rain, splashed by a mud puddle and spill your morning coffee all over you sparkling white shirt... read full

Where To Go On A First Date: The romantic picnic in the park or a walk on the promenade is probably not the safest first date. Meeting on a corner near your office is a good place. One of your co-workers can go with you on the pretense of walking home and can meet and scope out your date. You should always leave the information about who you are with and what you are doing with a trusted friend... read more

So what do you do After the Date?: Assuming that you actually enjoyed yourself on the date, let the person know. That goes for both men and woman. It doesn't have to be overly emotional or lovey-dovey just something simple like an email saying:

"I just wanted to drop you a line to let you know that I enjoyed myself last night and I hope you did so as well. Give me a buzz if you get a chance"

You open the door for the person to potentially agree to a second date with out looking like you are begging for it. The begging comes later in the relationship... read more

Oh my god sex, Sexual Etiquette: So you have gone out you liked each other and now you want the relationship to go on to a more physical level. You decide it is going to happen on the next date "I am going to make my move". So what exactly do you do? Personally I think that the Boy Scout motto of "always be prepared" is a good one. As a result HAVE AT LEAST ONE CONDOM I don’t care whether you like them or not. At this point in time you probably don’t know how your potential partner feels about it. Even if they don’t want to use a condom the very fact that they offered the use of one show that you are health conscience and concerned for their safety. I don’t think there is a lot of people now that would look at someone requesting the use of a condom as a personal insult. And if they did I would be concerned with sleeping with that personal anyway .... read more